WHEN DID I SIGN UP FOR SPEED-DATING ON FACEBOOK!!???

i never signed up for fucking speed date on facebook... and i'd like to know why my gmail inbox gets flooded with messages daily.  it's embarressing.... you know.... people go in your email and see "51 new messsages waiting for you on speed-date" --- all my streed cred that I don't want a relationship goes out the window...  people must think that I do NOTHING but cruise Facebook Speed-Date at work all day long!!!  

and also why do I have a private matchmaker note about vladusaf who is 24 and from APO, AP !!??  

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